In which I’m asked by a woman how she might most effectively conjure a FWB or threesome…. Seriously. (Is it that hard for a woman? I’m really shocked.)
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Ddevious Delights, RIP
I’ve been to well over a dozen Ddevious Delights parties over the years, but it seems they are no more.[…]
Read moreSingle guys and sex parties
A couple of men have asked me how they can join in the fun of swinging and sex parties and[…]
Read moreDate with V
1. Shit. I forgot my wallet. No credit cards. No ID. No cash. V has to pay for everything. Not[…]
Read moreSuperiority
From time to time, T and I have met people using CraigsList. We have placed a variety of ads, but[…]
Read moreTruth and memory at a sex party (Stag at a sex party, part 2)
I pulled my boxers on, leaped over the ottoman between Bill and Ginny and the bed, walked past Ofri and[…]
Read moreStag at a sex party, part 1
Some years ago, before I had ever had sanctioned sex outside our marriage, I visited The F Club in London.[…]
Read moreOn the swingset
The scene: a weekend away with friends, and friends of friends. Three couples, five kids. Bikes, mopeds, puzzles, games. Grilling[…]
Read moreSpecial redux, redux
I’ve written about this topic before, at least two times , but now’s a good time, again. One of the odd[…]
Read moreHigh-concept swinging (IV) – from a friend
Four couples, unknown to each other, but screened as you say for basic body type, and for impressive verbal skills.[…]
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