Fidelity, honesty, and commitment among the unfaithful.
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Tag: L
Masochism
A glimpse, maybe, into how, and why, I do things that produce nothing but suffering.
Read moreThe pussy whisperer
I want to be the pussy whisperer.
Read moreElizabeth Gilbert, sociopath
There’s a piece in the Times magazine by Elizabeth Gilbert, she of Eat, Pray, Love. The title of the piece[…]
Read moreFantasies about my fantasy
I’m imagining my core fantasy. First, what will you all wear? A sea of women…. Allie? Eva? The Historian? Isabel?[…]
Read moreDiscomfort
There are devotees of The Ethical Slut who are militantly opposed to dishonesty anywhere in or among relationships among the[…]
Read moreL is back
But not with me. L, you may recall, was the impetus behind this blog. When I first started writing it,[…]
Read moreThoughts on what feels good (getting vs. having #3,245)
Over the last couple of years, I’ve had two connections – with L and with V – that have been[…]
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Weak women
I’m drawn to strong women who grant me submission, not to women whose submission I can take from them.
Read moreMy quest for rejection, my discomfort with acceptance
If you’ve spent a lot of time in therapy (or maybe just if you pay attention to yourself a lot),[…]
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