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My Dissolute Life

Husband, Father, Slut.

  • My Story
  • Reading guide
    • My Story – Summarized
    • My cock
    • What I like
    • (Sex) addiction
  • Memory or fantasy?
  • Musing
  • Criticism
  • Orgasms…
  • Help wanted!
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Staying alive

November 23, 2016 N. Likes Musing

I’m thinking about the strategies I have for making myself feel alive, when I’m struggling with a feeling of deadness. And I’m revisiting my past.

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LBD

November 11, 2015 N. Likes Musing

In the world of those who consider themselves “sex addicts” or “sexaholics,” there exists a concept: the “lust-based decision.” Most[…]

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Sex addiction – a primer

April 16, 2014 N. Likes Musing

People talk about sex addiction like it’s a thing. Every so often, I offer my opinions – opinions which evolve.[…]

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Sex addiction

October 26, 2013 N. Likes Musing

Is “sex addiction” real? This question obsesses many – clinicians, people who experience themselves as being out of control of[…]

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Loneliness and rejection

September 5, 2013 N. Likes Musing

A loyal reader asked me recently about loneliness, and I tossed off a quick response: “… in general, I don’t[…]

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Rethinking addiction

June 2, 2013 N. Likes Musing

Heads up. My thoughts about sex addiction are evolving. Close readers of this blog know that I’ve struggled a bit[…]

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(Sex) addiction

June 2, 2013 N. Likes Post

I’ve written a fair amount about the concept of sex addiction. Is it real? Can one be addicted to sex?[…]

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Hi, I’m N, and I’m an addict…

December 21, 2012 N. Likes Musing

Am I a “sex addict”? Is there such a thing? Is it a meaningful term? One reader delights in calling me a sex addict. What do I have to say about it?

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Sex Addiction?

November 13, 2012 N. Likes Criticism

I recently tried to read The Myth of Sex Addiction, by David J. Ley, Ph.D. (yet another one of those[…]

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Relative relapses

September 12, 2012 N. Likes Musing

I’ve been thinking about the phenomenon of relapses, of slips, among addicts. It’s a very rare addict who doesn’t have[…]

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Introduction

L suggested I do this, and I must confess, I think she's on to something....

There's a lot of different stuff going on in this blog. The links in the top bar provide one path. The categories of my posts - My story, Memory or fantasy, Musing, Criticism, and Written by others - provide another.

The "My story" page, though, is essential to understanding anything else that goes on here. Please go there first.

And when you're done? Then go to the "Reading guide". That'll help you understand a bit more about me, and about what's here, more efficiently. Or? Just read....

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