Up in the air
That’s where things are with L. Her husband has had some second thoughts about our relationship. I had told myself[…]
Read moreThe tale of N., from the beginning
That’s where things are with L. Her husband has had some second thoughts about our relationship. I had told myself[…]
Read moreAs I gained control of my out-of-control behavior, as I discovered an ability to accept my desires and at the[…]
Read moreIn the world of twelve-step programs, there’s a ubiquitous construct: the “inner addict.” The inner addict is a sort of[…]
Read moreSexaholics Anonymous: has a rigid “bottom line.” Their “white book” makes abundantly clear that, “for the sexaholic, any form of[…]
Read moreWarning – this is a non-sexual post. It’s non-erotic, and not a turn-on at all. If that’s not interesting to[…]
Read more[apologies – in the transition from Blogger, this post lost its links and pictures and formatting. Go here to see[…]
Read moreI am no stranger to the dark, seamy underbelly of compulsive, driven sex. For years, I was not at all[…]
Read moreAmid all the press that Ashley Madison got a few years ago (back when I was a CPOS), I added it to my[…]
Read moreThis is pretty much my core fantasy – it gives me almost everything I crave sexually. It involves me and[…]
Read moreOr maybe wishes? Or fantasies? I reserve the right to add more, but here are my top seven: 7. High-concept[…]
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