BDSM
In a conversation with a wise man once, I distinguished between dominance and submission, on the one hand, and sadism[…]
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Definitions: Slut: a person who sleeps with more people than I do. Slut: a person who sleeps with my friends,[…]
Read moreHow does an otherwise honorable person lie? And not a little white lie, but the kind of major, character-defining lie[…]
Read moreYou are one of my gurus. Probably, the one who has influenced me most. And I’m a guy with some[…]
Read more“Have you read Love and Kink, by Guy New York?” “No, should I?” “Sooooo good…. Shocked at how good it[…]
Read moreI’ve written about jealousy before, and I fear I have little new to add on the subject, but it’s feeling[…]
Read moreHere’s an experience. Perhaps you’ve had it. Me? It happens to me shockingly often. I write something. It might be[…]
Read moreLiza wrote the other day about some problems she’s been having, both with sex and with writing. (And then, promptly,[…]
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