A few readers (you know who you are, whiners) have complained that this blog is hard to read, what with[…]
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Eye contact
Even when maintaining eye contact, our eyes move around a fair amount. If I look at someone’s eyes, and she[…]
Read moreJe ne suis pas Charlie
Once in a while, I write about political or social topics. Don’t click through if you’re not prepared to stop[…]
Read more“No ma’am”
In which I am schooled by two very sexy baristas.
Read more“What movies turn you on?”
Any particular scenes? Why? I was asked this recently by a woman who, I hope, will not remain nameless. And[…]
Read morePay attention to me
Luna said this to me explicitly. Others have said it more implicitly. The type of woman with whom I interact[…]
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What does being “dominant” mean to you?
What is the definition of “dominant”? Well, I don’t really give a fuck. The salient question is, “What does my dominance look like?”
Read moreTwo soft cotton dresses
One white. One black. The dresses are plain, short, of the sort sold by the Gap, or American Apparel. Nothing[…]
Read moreThe edifice of monogamy
We have some sacred cows – beliefs that are so sacrosanct that we simply presume everyone shares them. Sometimes it[…]
Read moreRespect
A big part of what the world reads as submission, I read as respect. And not just respect of the[…]
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