Talking to interesting, fun, hot women in bars. I never did it before the last six months or so. I[…]
Read moreMonth: January 2014
Left-handed
I’m right-handed, but I just noticed that I do a lot of my writing with my left hand lately. I[…]
Read moreA simple porn-surfing thought
I just discovered that if you go to this page, you can see dozens of the gifs I’ve selected as[…]
Read moreDating at the speed of business
UPS had a slogan for a while – “Moving at the speed of business.” Back in a previous life, one[…]
Read moreDate with V
1. Shit. I forgot my wallet. No credit cards. No ID. No cash. V has to pay for everything. Not[…]
Read moreDeconstructing monogamy and sexual commitment
Monogamy: Because of who you are, I won’t sleep with anyone else. If this involves sacrifice, so be it. Part[…]
Read moreThem’s the breaks…
T and I go out, from time to time, on dates with other couples. Mostly, these have been people we’ve[…]
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Distant buddies – an update
Over the last couple of years, I’ve had a few distant buddies. Some have been more intense than others. Some[…]
Read moreBlog perks #1
Every so often, I get an e-mail like this: Hi N, I was going to post this on your blog,[…]
Read moreCultural sexual hegemony #6: Flat shoes vs. heels
We straight men are supposed to prefer women in heels. “Heels do wonderful things for women’s calves,” we are told,[…]
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