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Vitality, deadness, and sexual viability
Read moreI’ve been feeling a pervasive sense of deadness, exacerbated by aging, the prospect of bilateral knee replacement, and a diminished sexual life. But recent interactions with Margot, Jade, and an unexpected email from P have reawakened something in me.
Gifting rules (dayum)
Read moreAnything I buy for you belongs to me as long as we know each other. I can see you in what I get you when I want, and I’d prefer you not wear them with other men while we’re involved.
Job description for a submissive assistant role
Read moreA job description for a submissive assistant role, outlining responsibilities, qualifications, compensation. and the application process.
Aging sucks: a body inventory
Read moreAging sucks, but it beats the alternative.
On m-dashes and ai in my writing
Read moreI’m clarifying that the M-dashes in my recent posts come from AI transcription of my dictation, not AI-generated writing — the only AI-written text on the blog is the post excerpts and the image prompts my automated system generates.
Ai-powered lingerie browsing site
Read moreI used Perplexity and Claude Code to build a locally served website that curates and presents lingerie options from sites like Intimissimi — solving my frustration with e-commerce UX while shopping for a new stretching partner.
Notes to self on a porn library
Read moreI’ve built a personal AI-curated porn library that’s teaching me something bigger: the internet is dying because websites now obstruct access to content rather than enable it. The future belongs to structured, disintermediated data delivery — and my porn library is a working prototype of that idea.
Flirting: a night out with judd
Read moreI went out with my old friend Judd — both of us in open marriages — to a lively cocktail bar with the half-joking aim of flirting. We met a group of women at the bar, including one particularly fun blonde, and I reflected on the rarity of having a true wingman and the ongoing question of whether Sydney will call.