Down the rabbit hole
I wrote some while back about my “origin myth.” I did it here, and here, and here. I’ve been writing[…]
Read moreI wrote some while back about my “origin myth.” I did it here, and here, and here. I’ve been writing[…]
Read moreHow do you relate to boundaries? Do you stay far away from them? Run up to them and stop just[…]
Read moreAnother thought about what sometimes puts people off about me, about this blog: my experience is a bit scary. Some[…]
Read moreI have known monsters. I have known, and loved, people who have committed egregious offenses against humanity, against any notion[…]
Read moreA.O. Scott’s review of “Shame” in The New York Times alludes to Shakespeare’s Sonnet 129: The expense of spirit in[…]
Read moreIn the world of “sex addiction recovery,” there is a concept called “custody of the eyes.” I believe this is[…]
Read moreAs I gained control of my out-of-control behavior, as I discovered an ability to accept my desires and at the[…]
Read moreIn the world of twelve-step programs, there’s a ubiquitous construct: the “inner addict.” The inner addict is a sort of[…]
Read moreSexaholics Anonymous: has a rigid “bottom line.” Their “white book” makes abundantly clear that, “for the sexaholic, any form of[…]
Read moreWarning – this is a non-sexual post. It’s non-erotic, and not a turn-on at all. If that’s not interesting to[…]
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