I just can’t find any. There have been some, over the years. There was the deeply problematic Jefferson, whose blog inspired me, but whose behavior offline was credibly alleged by way too many people to be, well, icky. There was Omniwhore, who had a nice two-year run from 2012-2014, but who seems to have stopped. And… I think that’s it.
Recently, I learned of Sexy Little Ideas. I like this one. I don’t agree with everything he posts but, like I do, he writes about more than just body parts sliding in and out of body parts.
I’d like to compose a list of male sex bloggers, to be a sort of clearinghouse for people looking to read men’s perspectives on sex and sexuality. At first, it won’t be curated. I just want to collect URLs, so feel free to add any blogs you know of, like, or write, in the comments. And, over time, if I can find enough, maybe I’ll make it into a more opinionated and critical compendium.
Help me out.