I don’t think I’ve ever done one of these before. Most of the time, I really don’t like them – they feel like questions I don’t want to answer, questions whose answers I don’t care about with regard to others. This week’s, though, are (a little?) interesting, and I thought I’d give it a shot, just for fun.
1) What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17-year-old you?
That’s easy. The whole damned thing. When I was 17, I didn’t have the creativity to imagine that sex was anything that could be done with the lights on, or joyfully. Or that women would want to do it, let alone with me.
2) What one thing might shock that younger you?
I think the same answer here as to #1 above, perhaps with the addition of my non-monogamy.
3) What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?
That’s easy. The part where if, on any given night, I didn’t fall asleep until 4 or 5 or 6, I could simply sleep in the next day.
4) Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?
Bonus: Give your 17-year-old self a piece of sexual advice:
Be honest with your/myself. Own your desires. Don’t be ashamed of anything. And seek what you crave. Openly. Honestly. Transparently.
P.S. O.k., it wasn’t that interesting. My bad.